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| Please add any additional comments or thoughts that be of importance, and Thanks again. Please bear in mind that INFIDELITY for the purpose of this survey is not only marital, BUT is relationship based. Not everyone has been unfaithful and that is understood. This survey is designed to better understand the "reasons" why, and the conflicts between reward and guilt. Once again thank you for your time, honesty and anonymity. |
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| forsaking all others |
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| na |
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| I would remind anyone that at first glance it is easy to be judgemental and be negative about the whole thing, but when this happens to you or someone you care about you need first to realize that the sex part is just a behavior and that there are underlying problems that need to be solved/corrected. I needed to address those problems and not only seek forgiveness from him, but also forgive myself. Its difficult when you have been raised with certain valuse and then do something so totally out of sinc with those beliefs. Rather than giveup and throw in the towel you need to step back, take a deep breath and address ALL the issues that got you to that point. |
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| Marriage can be hard, but you have to remember your love you had together when you dated. |
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| IF YOU TRUELY LOVE SOMEONE, STAY FAITHFUL BECAUSE ONCE YOU STRAY, THE TRUST IS GONE FOREVER |
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| I have come to realize that I have as many flaws as my husband (possibly more). He is an honorable and faithful husband that I appreciate more and more as I look at relationships around me. |
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| I have never been in a relationship, and I stated early in the survey that I had never been unfaithful. However, the rest of the questions were geared toward those who had been unfaithful. You may want to change the survey somewhat so that people like me can just skip these questions, as they do not apply. |
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| Don't get into a relationship on impulse. |
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| CHECK YOUR ANSWERS BEFORE YOU CONTINUE WITH THE QUESTIONS. I SAID THERE WAS NO INFIDELITY IN OUR MARRIAGE AND WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED 37 YEARS |
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| you need to fix this as I said I was NOT unfaithful and it went on to ask me questions based on saying YES. |
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| This is a very interesting subject, most people dont go out planning on being unfaithful, it just happens sometimes, I never planned on it, but I am glad I did!!!!! My life is better because I took a chance |
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| rarely will a partner be able to forgive the betrayer but never will they forget. Once you've cut a hole in someone's heart, there is always a scar. |
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| None |
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| I never considered myself as unfaithful because of circumstances |
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In retrospect - it was the most stupid move of my life. I do agree that if you are in a bad marriage - then get out. But having an affair, as I look back - is not the answer.
I learned to love my husband and my family and make then number 1 in my life - now and forever. |
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| should ask if never unfaithful, would you and why |
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| if I was in a relationship with one man, I would never cheat on him with another. |
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| none of this survey applied to me, perhaps you should be more specific that this is for people who HAVE been unfaithful. or add some questions for those of us who haven't. by the way, if this is going to be used in a legitimate scientific publication, you need to get Human Subjects approval for it- you did do that, right? |
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| nil |
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| You assume everyone has cheated. How about some questions about "Are you married?", "How long have you been married?", "How is your marriage?", "Why is that?", "Have you considered cheating?", "Why didn't you?", etc. The way you have written this survey is completely uninteresting. You need to take the time to write out multiple answers that cover all circumstances. |
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