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Infidelity Issues in the 21st Century

Graduate study preparing a thesis, would like honest answers from both men and women regarding opinions of infidelity in relationships. Total anonymity, just request age, sex, and region for demographics.
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Please add any additional comments or thoughts that be of importance, and Thanks again. Please bear in mind that INFIDELITY for the purpose of this survey is not only marital, BUT is relationship based. Not everyone has been unfaithful and that is understood. This survey is designed to better understand the "reasons" why, and the conflicts between reward and guilt. Once again thank you for your time, honesty and anonymity.
 
I have given reasons for honoring vows. Infidelity between people that are unmarried, I don't see to be an issue. They never formally committed to each other and are not bound by the same as marriage with vows. Family is the core of society. A breakdown in that leaves the door open for many unsavory acts and laws. I don't believe homosexuals should marry, as it has always been against true nature to do so. I am not homophobic, but tolerant. Yet, it does not change my views, I believe homosexuals should remain celebate. This coming out of the closet has caused many problems with teenagers who know experiment with the opposite sex. Later on, they feel guilty and are often inappropriately put on medication unstead of addressing the issue with forgiveness and love. Teenagers have and always will make mistakes. It's the adults behavor and acceptance of against the natural course of nature that todays teens face more problems than ever before. Examples include, but are not limited to the high statics of depression among teenagers due to divorce and acceptance of same sex marriage. Society must return to their core beleifs that made this a great nation; or we will fail those who are most in need of understanding and care by adults. Look at the stats. Good luck with your thesis! I hope my opinion helps.
 
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Physical distances, from each other may lead to infidelity
 
lets talk about guilt. now i would not sleep with my six year partner for about a week or two after i slept with my new guy. i dont know call it stupid but i did see it as showing him a little respect. i feel that i showed him more respect than he has showed me. any time a man can sleep with two women in one night that is sick. back in the day when i was sleeping with other guys i will say i felt a little guilty. now as i look at it i have no guilt or regrets at all. there is nothing that he does now that surprises me. the real question is why am i still with him? maybe it's love. i thought it was love but as i think of it no-one who continuously cheats really loves you. they can give all of the excuses in the book like she does not cook or clean, the sex is not good, etc. when it all boils down i believe we have just fell out of love. there is no other reason to me. i hope i did not get too far off track. i hope this was some help to you. it served as a little therapy for me though. thanks.
 
This survey was unnessary cuz I am not this way. And wasn't this way when my husband was alive. SO I was sadly hurt with ths.
 
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reasons why is redundant
 
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Maybe ths will help: A member of our family went through this, so we saw it first hand. the guilt he went through by having a one nightstand destroyed his family, the trust of a 15 year marriage and his children couldn't understand why, and certainly not with the person who has the reputation of destroying marriages for fun. it took 10 months of intesive therapy to get them back together and he does everything possible to earn his trust back, yet it took him a while to grasp what it did to her spiritually & emotionally. She forgive him and the subject was never brought up again, that was five years ago, today they are happy and closer than ever. The family is complete again. Isn't that what is all about, the family being a whole?

Let me know how you paper turns out Auburshion1010@aol.com
 
I guess this happens in most couples as this is part of our life. After been through all these, then we will treasure our existing partners.
 
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i dont think evey one has i dont think u can say that u dont know that
 
Faithfully is everything if you want to sleep tight
 
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No one man can keep me happy
 
Nope
 
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Men are jealous mainly because of they are care about their personal reproduction; women are jealous mainly because of they are care where the family's money could go aside; that's the difference!
 
Nothing to add.
 
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